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Depression in men - why we should talk about it

Khushboo Motihar
07 Dec 2022

The stigma around depression affects men just as much as women. Men often deny they are depressed or try to conceal their feelings, leading to a lack of understanding and acknowledgement of depression in the male population. In fact, men are less likely than women to seek out mental health services according to research. Depression is a serious condition which affects one’s mental health, physical health and overall quality of life. Ignoring or denying you are depressed can lead to serious consequences. So what can you do to break down the barriers that keep men from getting the help they need? Let's take a closer look at the reality of male depression and what men need to know.

Early Signs of Depression

When it comes to mental health, men may have difficulty recognizing or admitting they are struggling. Many signs of depression can go unnoticed leading to delays in diagnosis and treatment. Being aware of the early signs can help men to get the help they need before it gets out of hand. Common symptoms of depression in men may include:

  • Becoming withdrawn from family and friends
  • Lowered self-confidence
  • Difficulty concentration
  • Loss of interest in hobbies or activities
  • Changes in appetite and sleeping patterns
  • General irritability and feeling overwhelmed.
  • Physical aches and pains

If these symptoms remain unaddressed, they can lead to more serious issues such as suicidal thoughts or actions. It's important for men to pay attention to their mental health and take action if they recognize any of these symptoms.

Common Causes of Male Depression

There are several potential causes for male depression, some of which may be unique to men. These include:

  • Stressful life events such as job loss, divorce or death
  • A history of substance abuse or addiction
  • Difficult relationships
  • Low self-esteem
  • Unhealthy coping mechanisms such as aggression and anger.
  • Financial issues
  • Hormonal changes

It's important to note depression can affect anyone, regardless of gender. However, the way men experience and express their symptoms may be different from women. For example, men are more likely to express their depression through anger, aggression and risk-taking behavior according to a study. Depressed men are also more likely to focus on physical symptoms such as back pain, headaches, sleep problems and drug or alcohol abuse.

How Men Can Cope With Depression?

Despite the stigma, it’s important for men to seek help for depression. Mental health professionals can provide diagnosis and treatment, helping to reduce symptoms so men can manage their emotions more effectively.

1. Educate Yourself

It's important for people to understand that depression is a real illness affecting millions of people every year—men included. Depression isn't a sign of weakness; it's a sign something isn't working right in your brain. Just like any other illness, depression requires treatment in order to get better. 

2. Destigmatization

Breaking down the stigma around depression starts with education and destigmatization. Talking openly about mental health can help to reduce the shame associated with depression and make it easier for men to seek help. Initiating conversations with friends and family can help to normalize the experience of depression so men don't feel like they are alone or ashamed.

3. Self-Care

Self-care is one of the most important tools for managing depression. This includes getting enough sleep, eating a nutritious diet, exercising regularly and engaging in other forms of self-care such as hobbies, creative activities and socializing with friends.

4. Professional Help

Finally, seeking help from a mental health professional is one of the most effective ways to manage depression. Mental health professionals can provide guidance and support as well as evidence-based treatment such as cognitive-behavioral therapy.

Male depression is a real and serious issue—but it doesn't have to be an insurmountable one. By being aware of the signs and symptoms, recognizing potential causes and taking proactive steps to manage depression, men can find the help they need in order to lead healthier, happier lives.

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