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How do I communicate better with my teen? It seems like we are growing apart, and I have very little information on what he feels, or thinks.

02 Oct 2023
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Angeline Tan

Teenage phrase is a rough stage and understandably that communication is rough. At any phrase of a child's life from an infant to a working adult, he or she will seek help, comfort and love from parents and caregiver. Understand both parties boundaries and allowing the conversation to flow naturally takes time and practices. Especially when they are a teenager, there are a lot of uncertainty and sensitivity towards oneself and socially as they are still learning and growing. But one thing is for sure, that when he does initiate the conversation, non judgmental guidance/ comments, active listening are crucial. At the moment presently, making own self widely available and active listening is the major part. I believe your parent instinct will kick in and guide you to communicate better down the line with your son.

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Avani Bhatia

Try not to interfere too much and at the same time be with them when he/she needs you. Don't judge just listen Don't reply or reciprocate or advice, just be there to hold hands. Don't interrupt, allow the Flow Be strict but be subtle

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Ambika Srikrishnan

Actively listening without the intention of immediately providing feedback or advice is crucial. Every teenager goes through a range of emotions and feel them deeply. Acknowledge their emotions and let them know you understand how they feel. This can help them feel more accepted and understood. Engaging in activities that interest them is a great way to build a connection. Whether it's a shared hobby, sport, or other interests, participating in their activities can strengthen your bond.Building a positive relationship is key to gaining their trust. Spend time with them, show genuine interest in their lives, and be reliable in your interactions. While it's natural to want to protect your child, it's important to strike a balance. Being overly protective can make them feel guarded and less likely to open up.

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